Saturday, May 16, 2009

A Night At Dacia's Home for Wayward Girls

As I sit here lounging on the couch getting ready for round three of brunch (mussels in white wine with shallots I hear) I find myself with a few minutes to post on this little old sex bloggie thing I have here. (care to guess how many drinks I have had so far)

Another lovely evening was once again had by one and all at Dacia's Home for Wayward Girls when several of us sex bloggers got together to do what we do best. Eat, drink and be merry. I know you're asking yourself where is the sex in there. Are we now food bloggers? No but one of the things I have found these past few months is a level of intimacy in my life that is new to me and doesn't actually have to involve sex. Sometimes the time I spend with friends who I am close to in my life over drinks and our love of food is more rewarding than sex without intimacy or friendship at the very least.

I tried to explain this to someone not that long ago and they could not get past the word "intimacy." They could only associate that word with commitment and try as I might they could not understand my thoughts on it. I pointed out that many marriages are without intimacy and yet are a major commitment.

These days I am exploring all those different levels of friendship and intimacy in my life.

Now let me share some of the awesome food and drinks here at the Home for Wayward Girls.

It started with an assortment of cheeses (it always does) by Dacia.


Followed by Paella from our the amazing cook Desiree


And last but not least Natt Nightly put his marvelous baking skills to work and made us these.


Doesn't all of that look great! But wait it gets even better. After all the food and drinks it was time to retire to bed. Have I mentioned they have the most comfortable beds here? Catalina and I retired to our room and that is as much as I am going to say. Other than when I shut the lights off their were several little glowing lights around the room. Upon further inspection I found she had plugged all her sex toys to charge. They make awesome nightlights.

This morning (or is it afternoon already?) we now lounge around working, chatting and having the famous Wayward Home Brunch which includes their signature drink the "Fizzy Vixen" or in my case the fuzzy vixen.

3 comments:

Kyle said...

First of all, I admire you all in your obvious skill at having a great time together. Second, intimacy is not the same as sex and certainly not the same as commitment. Intimacy is a necessity, imho, and can be received from friends and lovers -- I actually think its essential to have various levels and sources of intimacy to be healthy.

Nadia West said...

I have to confess I'm a little jealous of the intimacy you and your friends share. I don't have any female friends I'm currently close to. Maybe I should spend less time with the guys and cultivate some friendships.

Sounds like you all had a wonderful time. And intimacy is a wonderful thing to share. Thanks for sharing with us out in the blogsphere.

Lou said...

I have that phone. lulz!